Group friendships are messy, chaotic, and downright unpredictable—but they’re also one of the most rewarding connections you’ll ever have. It’s not just about finding people to hang with, it’s about building a crew that has your back, challenges you, and makes you laugh until you can’t breathe. Sure, there will be drama, disagreements, and the occasional awkward moment, but that’s all part of the ride. When you build a solid group, you create a support system that’s got your best and worst sides covered. It’s about trust, loyalty, and the kind of bond that can survive the ups and downs of life. So, buckle up—because group friendships aren’t for the faint of heart, but they’re definitely worth it.
What Are Group Friends?
A lot of us have groups of friends - likely created through school/college, work, social clubs, or local communities (Church, neighborhoods, etc). Most of these friends are viewed as a collective - with emphasis on the group over the individual. You have a shared interest/community in common and that brings you together.
Should You Make Group Friends?
If you're in an introvert, a group friend dynamic might feel super overwhelming. Group friends certainly aren't for everyone. However, for extroverts or adults trying to maximize their social life, friend groups are very rewarding. hen you’re part of a group, you get to experience the highs and lows of life with a solid crew that’s got your back—whether you’re celebrating victories or facing tough times. The rewards? Unmatched loyalty, laughter that fills the room, and bonds so strong, they feel like family.
Group Friend Benefits?
You’ve got a whole network of people to lean on, whether you’re dealing with a breakup, a bad day, or just need someone to rant to. Plus, with so many different personalities, you get a buffet of perspectives, advice, and skills that can help you grow and see the world in new ways. The best part? You never have to go through life’s curveballs alone. When you’ve got a solid group, you’re backed by a crew that shows up for you, pushes you, and, most importantly, reminds you that you’re never truly alone.
The Downside & What To Watch Out For With This Friend Type:
Clashing personalities, hidden drama, and unspoken rivalries can easily turn the vibe from carefree to tense. The bigger the group, the more likely someone’s bound to feel left out, or worse, caught in the middle of petty drama they didn’t sign up for. It’s hard to keep everyone happy, and sooner or later, someone’s feelings will get hurt. Huge friend groups can lead to hierarchies and "leaders" - which can cause members to take sides or feel left out. Plus, if you have a falling out, you risk losing literally an entire group of friends.
How To Make Group Friends:
Connecting with past friend groups from your hometown or college is an easy way to get back into a group friend vibe setting. Alumni groups, Meetups, social clubs, and sports leagues provide spaces to form groups of friends with a shared general interest. We also suggest befriending neighbors to create group friends in your local community.
Hosting a party, planning an information session, or creating a group chat are easy ways to get a group friendship going! People like being part of something!
Rating Group Friends
Connection Ease:
██████ 6/10 - Making friends in a group comes easier than being solo
Shared Interests:
███ 3/10 - Usually there is only one main shared interest/background
Continue The Group Friend Conversation:
Check out Season 1, Episode 11 "Group Friends" on our podcast! Available on Spotify & major streaming platforms! You can also view this episode through our website or on Youtube.
Have a group friend story to share?! We would love to hear it! Leave us a comment or message us at hardtomakefriends@gmail.com
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